Forked Path

Which will you choose?

How to Make New Choices Aligned with your Soul Path

Debra Jones

We exist in two worlds - physical and spiritual. We move back and forth between these worlds to acquire self-knowledge and to attain mastership of our life.

This truth is not always fully knowable, but we notice proof in the clues that appear when we become and remain aware.

We have chosen to be here, at this unprecedented time in history, to experience a massive shift in consciousness.

If you feel the same, know that you are ready. It is time.


As always, we have free-will to take whichever path we choose. Any reward worth having takes effort to obtain. We are abundantly rewarded when we take the Path of the Soul.

When a client comes to me feeling stuck and unsatisfied with where they are in life, they will often hear me say this:

  • “What are the choices that lay before you?”

They'll share the options they believe they have.
I'll suggest a few other options that they may not have considered. Then I'll ask:

  • "Which is the scariest?"

To which they'll usually answer with a twinkle in their eye, and to that, I'll say:

  • "Do that!"

I'm sharing this story with you now because we're at a juncture. We are all becoming aware of our deepest wounding (from this and past lives.)

Life, as we've known it, is no longer. We all get to decide which parts of the old life we will take with us into our future, and what parts we'll leave behind.

NOTE: Not everything you believe to be useful, actually is. Be aware that some of your beliefs have been handed down to you by another. Now that you are mature enough to make your own choices in life, give yourself permission to question every idea.

Start with questioning your beliefs surrounding your current circumstances.
Ask yourself these questions:

  • "If I could choose again, would I choose this?"
  • "Does this bring me joy?"
  • "Does this excite me?"
  • "Am I choosing this out of fear or love?"
  • "Is there a 'should' involved?

Once you’ve decided to throw caution to the wind and follow your deepest desires, it’s useful to gain a higher perspective. I write about this in my book, The Successful Healer (page 204):

You’ll never find solutions at the level of the problem, you need to go higher. When small decisions are a challenge, move to a higher perspective and ask yourself questions from that level, such as:

  • Why is this significant, meaningful and relevant to me?
  • What do I need to know?
  • What action do I need to take to create the desired outcome?
  • If I am to be successful, how will I need to adapt, refine and reinvent?

You’re not always going to have all the information you need before you take a step. There are no guarantees of success, but to be successful, you need to remain comfortable under pressure and act on what you DO know.

As Tony Robbins says, “The quality of your life is determined by the amount of uncertainty you can comfortably live with.” Despite the uncertainty around you, when you can see the situation from a higher perspective, it will encourage you to take decisive action. Even if you’re wrong, you’ll have an opportunity to course-correct. Taking action yields results! If you keep doing the same thing, you’ll get the same result. Do something different, and you’re guaranteed a different result.

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"Life is offered as a means of self-expression, only giving us what we seek when we listen to the heart."
- Michael Newton, Ph.D. Author of Journey of Souls.

My clients have found that it helps to have a safe, neutral sounding board to share thoughts that may feel uncomfortable, scary or challenging. Currently studying astrology, I have learned how to determine your CHIRON WOUND, your original wound. Chiron is a planet, and its position in your astrological chart determines your WOUND STORY. Once you know what it is, you can then turn this wound into your greatest gift.

  • If you are curious enough to explore your wounding, with me supporting you on the journey, book a TeleHealth session using my online calendar here

If you prefer the SELF-HELP path, I offer tools and guidance to gain clarity of what you’re REALLY here to do in this life.

  • Discover your HUMAN DESIGN. Get yours here
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